10 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart



Many of us encountered breakups and goodbyes in our past and present relationship. Some might cause of misunderstanding, family conflicts, culture and even third party (well, I think "third party" is present in every relationship. LOL). So based on my own experience, I explore every single ways on how to heal my broken heart.

1. LETTING GO.
Sometimes, the best way to heal a broken heart is to let go of the person you used to love. The person whom you've shared your whole world (as in your whole life) and suddenly, he/she will leave you with NO reason. FTW. Learn to accept what happened and let him/her go out of your way.

2. CRY. CRY. CRY.
Let your emotions blown out. Feel the heartache while remembering your past relationship; the sweet smile, his/her lovely face, the thoughts you've shared together, your beautiful memories, monthasaries and the first celebration of your annivarsary. Then, CRY!

3. SLEEP LESS. EAT MORE.
If you suffered from break-ups, you actually experience a sleepless nights, weeks, months, and years (WORST). You can't go out and hang-up with your peers. So the tendency is you will stay at home 24 hours and eat a lot! More more more carbohydrates and fats. Eating will be your hobbie now.

4. CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBER
During the happiest moment in your life, mobile phone is your bestfriend. You used it as a medium of exchanging cheezzzzy messages with you partner and sometimes, phones are actually the way of getting "girls" and (Often times) getting "boys" too. Hahaah LOL. Before, your cellphone numbers are close likely the same (09267091944 and 09267091945), decide now! Change it right a way!

5. UNFRIEND/UNFOLLOWFacebook. Twitter. Of course! You are very familiar with this top social networking sites. It's the new trend in expressing yourself to the world. Your personality may sometimes be different from who you are off-line. In an on-line world, nothing is impossible. The same with mobile phones, you used SNSs as a medium of exchanging cheezzzzy messages with you partner and sometimes, SNSs are actually the way of getting "girls" and (Often times) getting "boys" too. Hahaah LOL. So, delete him/ her on your friends list. Unfollow him/her on your following.

6. STUDY HARD
Your life is not yet done. You have to continue what you're doing (Without HIM/HER) Ouch! That's life, it's unfair but you have to play with them. Why? You gave everything; your time, effort, whole SELF, and even your allowance (Hehehe) and suddenly when someone's better than you came into his/her life, the world will now starts to turn around. (Ow! Nevermind that) So don't forget, STUDY first, before LOVE affair.

7. SET YOUR GOALS
Study. Study. Study. Set your goals. How do you see yourself 5 or 10 years from now? Check your calendar and schedule everything. Fix your life cheng!

8. WORK OUT & FIT IN.
Go to gym and take vitamins. You have to take care of yourself because you don't have your partner to take care of you (Sigh) Improve, develop and make yourself as more handsome/beautiful as you are before (compare to his/her present) haha LOL. Bitter.

9. SEARCH FOR BETTER
There are a total of 7,256,789,112.50 people in the world! (Not fact) So, you don't have to waste yourself looking back on your past relationship. Search for better.

10. STAND-UP AND BE PROUD!
Finally, after doing those nine (9) steps you're just a step before your NEW YOU! The NEW You that who will fall inLOVE again, who will break another heart or sometimes, who will experience another heart broke. So the next time you will suffer from this deadly disease, you just have to go back to step number 1 through number 10! Ok? Stand-Up and be Proud! Be HAPPY!

That's Love!

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